I am currently in the process of studying proper business etiquette through the American Business Etiquette Trainers Association (ABETA).  Today, the topic of training was on effective communication.  As a personality trainer, I was intrigued by how closely their perspective related to the topic of personalities and character development. Remember, highly successful people, in all types of professions, know this information and apply it! Here are the four secrets to effective communication. 1) Effective communication is not about you.  It…